Tons of articles on tidal triggering of global earthquakes. Like this one:
"A review of tidal triggering of global earthquakes"
August 2022 Geodesy and Geodynamics 14(1)
DOI:10.1016/j.geog.2022.06.005
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/362666022_A_review_of_tidal_triggering_of_global_earthquakes
And subduction can't be density driven. The average density of old and new crust is the same cuz their average temperatures are the same. Older crust is not getting colder, it's getting thicker. They both have the same temperatures on their bottoms and tops, thus their average temperatures are the same.
Edit:
Actually, on de-lamination, an older slab produces a layer of material of density higher than the average density of the slab. But that happens at the end of subduction and couldn't normally be considered as the driving force for subduction.