I was able to figure out the Criteria , by a little armchair research & inputs from user "nate" & from user "Universal_learner" & from Britannica & from Wiki :
Particularly , the Wiki Section https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aftershock#Effect_of_aftershocks gave the Major Hint :
"Bigger earthquakes have more and larger aftershocks and the sequences can last for years or even longer especially when a large event occurs in a seismically quiet area; see, for example, the New Madrid Seismic Zone, where events still follow Omori's law from the main shocks of 1811–1812. An aftershock sequence is deemed to have ended when the rate of seismicity drops back to a background level; i.e., no further decay in the number of events with time can be detected."
Thus The Main Criterion (in addition to Position & type & Etc) is whether the seismic activity has returned to normal background level.
When background "hum" or "rumble" or seismic activity is higher than normal when multiple earth quake occur , then all are treated in one large "sequence" , with the "largest" called main & the others called foreshocks & aftershocks.
When background seismic activity goes back to normal , then that "sequence" is deemed over.
That terminal event might take Days or Weeks or Months or even 200 Years.
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Of course , the "sequence" must occur within the same Position & must have same triggers , though the background seismic activity decides whether it is new "sequence" or not.